I recently went to the Sunday TED Talk session Cmax put on. It was good to watch TED talks which I probably wouldn’t have watched. For example, I don’t normally go for the technology stuff. The technology hit I get through my business is normally enough for me. The talk that stood out the most was by writer Anne Lamott and I probably wouldn’t have picked this one either. One thing she said got me thinking; “help is the sunny side of control.” Growing up a strong emphasis was